JJ Sessions,
a senior financial planner in the Twin Cities office of The Planning Center,
wrote for Forbes:
We all want
to amass the financial portfolio that will give us a secure feeling about our
lives. Does it take some special genius to do that? Not quite. JJ Sessions, a
senior financial planner in the Twin Cities office of The Planning Center,
tells us how: by setting goals. But just how to do that is the special secret.
Want to know
the best way to achieve financial success, or any kind of success. Learn how to
set goals. But there’s a trick to this.
The first
idea is to change your goal structure: don’t set a deadline, set a
schedule. Rather than set a goal to read
X number of books by the end of the year, set a schedule of when you’ll read.
For example,
you’ll read 20 minutes each night before bed, or one hour every Saturday
morning. You’ll find that by sticking to a schedule you will meet your ultimate
goal of reading more and the likelihood of reading the number of books you
originally set out to read will increase. A simple adjustment of more or less
time to the schedule is easier to do once you’ve created the habit. Consistency
is key.
“Productive
and successful people practice the things that are important to them on a
consistent basis,” says James Clear, an author focused on behavioral
psychology. “The best weightlifters are in the gym at the same time every week.
The best writers are sitting down at the keyboard every day. The strange thing
is that for top performers, it’s not about the performance, it’s about the
continual practice.”
Jerry
Seinfeld was once approached by a budding comedian who asked for advice on how
to become a successful comedian. Seinfeld told the young comedian to hang a
large year-at-a-glance calendar on the wall and each day he wrote new material
to mark the calendar with a big red X.
Seinfeld told him to write every day. No. Matter. What. Eventually one red X would turn into two,
into three, then five days, maybe even a week straight. Then, once he had strung together these
multiple days, came another rule: Never break the chain.
This
resonated with me. But I know me, and I know things don’t always go the way I
hope. Then came the revelation. While attending a conference last year, James
Clear shared another adage worth remembering. He said, “Make sure you never
miss two times in a row.” It was that practical advice that we have all
listened to, but don’t REALLY hear or understand.
Just because
you miss one day doesn’t mean you’ve failed, or that you should give up. It was
like Seinfeld’s advice to the budding comedian, but in this case intended for
regular people. I can do that! I can
release the guilt and momentary thoughts of failure that come with missing that
one day, with the gap in my perfect rows of big red X’s and move on. I can
count it a success that there aren’t two gaps.
The second
idea is to change the way you think about your behavior. A simple change in
your mindset can not only position you for goal achievement, but also allow you
to have fun while doing it. Adding up all the little successes all along the
way can really help keep you on track and motivated.
One great
example of this is Teddy. Teddy was living paycheck to paycheck. He really
wanted to save money, but had been unsuccessful in doing so. One year he decided to simply add a dollar
sign with a blank space next to it to his calendar every Saturday. Each week,
he then wrote in how much he had purposefully not spent and instead put into a
savings account. He was now visually
accountable to himself (and to that blank space on his calendar) to save.
Some weeks
he only filled in $5, others he was able to save over $100. Eventually Teddy started writing in a goal
amount he was going to save at the beginning of the week, and spending only
what he had left over. It was this key change that led him to a new paradigm.
Teddy now saw himself as a saver instead of a spender.
The power to
set a schedule to achieve your goals and to see yourself in a new way is
extremely enabling and exciting. No
matter what your goals are this year, I challenge you to find little ways to
set yourself up for this kind of success. Hey, set a goal to check in on your
progress in six months and see what you’ve accomplished. And if you have a lot
of blank days in a row, re-establish a goal and get another big red X up there
in June.

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